Saturday, September 17, 2016

I'm Still Searching

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Now I'm a very optimistic person, I'm positive that my love life sucks!!! I keep hoping that someday I'll be proven wrong, but that day hasn't come yet. Some people say the glass is half full. Some say it's half empty. I say "put some ice in it". What am I ranting about? Just like the last guy Tom G. I was trying to scope out and figure which way he swung. I was spending more time with my friend from work, the one that just retired, Dave W. He was telling me the people he met where he's moving to 600 + miles away in a southern state. His decorator, how nice she looks in her lacy tops and very tight jeans. He said she really gets him going. He's got a lady friend in Florida he's going to spend a couple of weeks with next month. And his next door neighbor lady, some one about Dave's age. Spending a lot of time and doing activities together, etc. So no I don't think Dave's looking for a quote-unquote guy friend. And in the past, he's said a few homophobic comments. I still thought I might tell him how I feel about him. If he reacts negatively we both can part ways and move on. If on the other hand, it's positive, as in thanks but no thanks but we still can be good friends. I'll keep in touch and maybe visit him in his retirement. If it goes bad or really bad I un-friend him on F/B and block him, just so he doesn't bother me or other F/B friends. So that's two out of three guys I've been, for lack of a better term chasing after. It might make me appear as a satyr. ;-) But hey I've got to have a backup plan if  the first one or second one or maybe even the third one don't work out. The third guy, I haven't seen him around much lately. But I've made friends with a guy name Roy. We both seem to have a lot in common and have plenty to talk about when we do get together. Like Ron (Retired in Delaware) said before. It might be a guy that hasn't even come on the scene yet, you never know.

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    1. Hi Am, I think we've all been there-done that in our lives. If not you just move on.

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  2. Randy,
    He's coming, believe me he is coming and when you least expect it from a place where you would never guess. And the wait is well worth it. I waited for 72 years, hopefully you won't have to wait that long! But it's going to happen Randy, it will. Just continue to be the good an decent person that you are.
    Ron

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    1. Hey Ron, I think I know what you mean, it wasn't this guy and may not be the next one either. But finding somebody in this little town of approx. 25,000 people is like looking for the proverbial needle in a haystack. But don't worry about me I'm not as down as my last post made me out to be. If anything new with my crush Dave does happen I'll post something. But I'm no longer going to obsess over it. And thanks!

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    2. Randy,
      It doesn't matter where you live. Look at where I live, the summer gay capital of the East Coast but I have not only met anybody here but I haven't even made gay friends and I'm not a bad guy. I found my friend on the Internet, or rather he found me. You're on the Internet now with your blog. Keep up your blog. Write about your life. There are literally thousands of guys out there in the ether (Internet land) who are looking for a fine man just like you. Keep your blog up and post lots of pictures and how you really feel about life. Don't worry about being as good a writer as Spo (few are), just be yourself. You're a catch Randy and someone is looking for a guy just like you. And as David (Travel) said in his comment, there just might be a "Someone" in your small town. You just never know.
      Ron

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    3. Hi Ron, Thanks. But now I've got bigger problems, see latest blog post.

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  3. There has to be bunch of Someone's hiding in that town, wondering how to find Someone, afraid that the neighbors will figure it all out. You could open the towns first Gay-Bar.

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    1. Hi David, Thanks for your reply. I'm sure there must be somebody close by I could go for. I've got slim pickin's in the part of the country.

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